He does not know about the keystroke program, and i do feel really really crappy about having it on the computer(i only added it after seeing the sex dating site alert) and i know it is sneaky and horrible and maybe a completely crazy thing to do but i needed to have the proof if i did confront him about this dating site, but as i have put it down to just spam i will not be doing that.
I also checked his email, and he has erased the message from the sex dating site and everything, so for now i'm not mentioning it.
When i'm quiet-----my husband starts backpeddling and talking a lot because he is nervous by my reaction.
) the site sent me another email with the subject line don't forget to login, but the actual email is the same exact one as the first one they sent me, and my husband hasn't received anything like that one that i know of.
I only get about 10 in my spam folder but some of those are actually those types of meet local websites now that i think about it.
why did my husband join a dating site
To keep it a "we" conversation vs a you or i and stay quiet after questions to him or comments to give him a chance to sputter on as many people will do in that situation because they aren't used to the other not talking all the time (okay----maybe that is me and my husband .
If you visit one site and sign up for something you will get that site selling your info to other sites.
I did note the website name and his login info, as it was conveniently in the alert on his phone, and put that information in the notepad of my phone for future reference.
It were me, i would sit on the info and continue to check out the site, being sure that i would not be found out by him.
I'll try that general conversation starter form you specialmom, although with my husband i doubt it will go anywhere because he's not a big talker and it's hard to get him to come out and say what he thinks, at least that's how it is when in the past i have tried to have the big "let's talk" marriage conversations.
my husband has joined a dating site
I continued to chat with him on the site and managed to get him to look at himself instead of blaming me (as his wife) for his emotional issues.
I just already feel so betrayed even knowing he hasn't even logged into the site or done anything yet.
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If he really did go to a porn site and join with his info and he then got sent phishing emails or texts?
It's not just a normal dating site such as match or e harmony, no it a sex dating site.
It a site that you can go to to find people in your area to have sex with!
In that case, one option is to create your own account on one of these sites and then search for your husband or wifes physical attributes and location to see if you find a matching profile.
) and even a hook-up dating site where people go to find others to have sex with!
Fortunately, these sites aren't as safe and anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.
Can also scan your credit card statements, as many sites charge an activation fee for new profiles.
So i went into the site on my phone (his reason it was registered was his info is programed in his fone)(mine is too) but i still had to put it all in there manually inorder for it to sign me up.
I have huge doubts your husband would come clean with you until you put the evidence down infront of him.
He could have gone to the website through his phone and not the computer so it wouldn't have shown up on teh keystroke.
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For some people who enjoy these websites, oh well, but for a married couple, this could be a problem if one of the spouse is unaware and feels that hubby or wife is viewing all these websites.
've been wanting to see a therapist for awhile now, for myself mostly, and then work on my marriage too but just haven't really spent the time and looked for one, plus my husband thinks therapists are a joke and thinks that people need to handle their own problems.
There's a slim to none chance this is a marketing problem or scam if you've gone into his site.
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I still have the keystroke program so if he goes to any dating sites or anything like that i'll know.
Want to share my experience about when i found out that my husband was on a dating site.
You have already stated that he has been on dating websites (which by the way, why would you need to be on a dating site if you are married?
, dating sites and apps can allow men and women to have secret interactions and flirtations and in some cases, entire relationships, without the riskof their husbands or girlfriends catching them in the act.
Then, i have caught him on porn sites, dating sites, f*ckbook, live porn shows, and this &that.
But as i couldn't find him i'm thinking it's just a random spam, probably from a porn site he goes to or something.