How to tell if your more than a hookup

Chilling out and doing nothing together is acceptable once youre actually dating, because theres no constant pressure to go out on dates every single day.

Hell hold doors open, buy you drinks and food, and match his pace to yours out in public.

It's not that if all guys who would be interested in dating you will automatically be put off by this if it happens to them (though some will be), it's that these guys who manage to get into your pants on the first date and are also so pushy to get here probably aren't interested in anything beyond that.

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So, that begs the questionhow do you push your summer fling into an actual relationship?

Youve discussed exes, past flirts and flings, as well as regrettable choices, your childhoods, friendships gone wrong, and more.

Rather than just asking what you do for a living, he may ask what you like about your job, and where you see yourself in the next five years.

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Does he or she wait weeks to accept your friend request or doesn't follow you back?

There will be a level of common ground, communication, and honesty that you just wont have with a hookup.

If you've been acting like you're fine with the hookup, it's now time to start changing your behavior and see if her or she reciprocates.

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Are you sick of boys flirting with you...but not asking you out? Do they want to have sex with you but not make you their girlfriend?

If hes looking for a hookup, he wont care if you dont share anything to talk about, or have anything to do together.

That's what the "you have to wait"-mantra is about: not necessarily because being "easy" kills your chances, but because not being easy weeds out the guys who are just interested in sex.

He will prefer to wait for the right time, till youre ready, to let the magic happen.

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Its no surprise that youre wondering whether the latest guy actually wants anything serious at all.

Of the most common questions we get from you guys is this: how can i tell if he wants a relationship or just wants to hook up?

I love my girl right now and i really want her to know that i love her for her and i am straight up serious when i tell her that i want a serious relationship.

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Dick pics, the i want to stick ___ in your ___ as an opening line, asking for nude photos, being explicitly sexual at all in the first, 20+ messages, or 1-2 interactions in person.

Talking about your goals and dreams is something you do with close people only, like family, friends, and partners.

A girl i want to just hookup with i have no such problem and usually get down to business as soon as possible.

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Your relationship has been hookup-focused for the summer, it's time to subtly start changing the focus.

Say something like, "i totally get that you might not have been expecting this, and we don't need to figure it all out right nowi just wanted to put that on your radar.

Theyll ask questions about what youre willing to do, where you draw the line, and then eventually, theyll try to sext you, if not come onto you in person.

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